She mentions that she always needs to remind herself to embody her “feminine energy.”
Big Brother Naija star Tolani Baj has shared insights on managing her independent nature while in a relationship.
During an interview on Clout Radio, the reality TV star was questioned about managing her independence while also being treated like royalty by her romantic partner. She explained that in relationships, she often finds herself adopting a more submissive role and allowing her partner to take the lead.
“So when I don’t have a guy in my life right, I’m in my masculine energy. I do everything with or without a man. But when I do have a man in my life, I let him take the lead and I have to constantly remember that ‘baby girl, relax in your feminine energy, you don’t have to be too forward,'” she explained
“When I do have a man in my life, I let him take the lead”
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Tolani Baj highlighted how she allows the man to take care of tasks that she would have handled herself if she were single.
“Even if I know how to do something, I’d still pretend and be like a damsel in distress like ‘Hey babe, how do you do that?’ when deeply I can do it. In fact, if it’s to change a tyre I can change tyres,” she said.
Tolani Baj laughed then added, “Okay I’m lying, I can’t change a tyre but if it has to come to that I will learn it. But I just let men take the lead when they’re in my life, but if they’re not in my life and I have to be independent I will step into that role like a boss.”
complete interview video below:
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