She believes that love is not blind, and if you love blindly, it’s not genuine love.
Nigerian singer Tems disclosed that she has never experienced love with anyone yet, but she hopes to experience it in the future.
During a recent episode of her show “Flow with Korty,” Tems shared her perspective on love while speaking with the popular YouTuber Korty EO. She highlighted that, contrary to the common phrase “love is blind,” she believes love is experienced with eyes wide open.
Tems explained;
“I haven’t been in love. Loving someone for me is more of ‘I see you and I still want to be in your life. Even though you annoy me sometimes, I choose you and I choose you.’ I would like to be in love, to experience something deep but really real not blind. I don’t believe that love is blind, I think if you really love someone you’re loving them with your eyes open.”
The singer emphasized that true love involves loving someone even when you see their vulnerability.
“If you’re blind that is not love. Love is when you’ve seen the person, their yansh is open and you’re like ‘I still want it. I still want that.’ I want someone to see my goods and be like, ‘Yeah, give me some of that,” she said.
Tems mentioned that she can often discern the intentions men have towards her when it comes to meeting and accommodating new people. She also outlined the qualities she seeks in individuals.
“The thing is I know their intentions most of the time. They have one intention, like most guys. They’re very obvious, so how can I trust this conversation we’re having? It’s not even real. Everything you say is fake. Once I see that I’m like ‘Omo.’ I have things that I’m looking for. You have to be emotionally intelligent, very funny and spiritually adept, inclined and mature. But to boys who like me, show me,” said Tems.
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